Recently, many people are the real big toys shock. Wang Xiaofei children accidentally exposed luxury house installed. Many sharp eyed Netizens found a small Yue children toy room filled with all kinds of toys, and the space is quite large, almost even bigger than most people's living room.
But toys are really good, aren't they? As everyone knows, sometimes too many toys will hinder the development of children's concentration.
Too much stimulation is easy to disperse the child attention:
Family education refers to Wu Chun, a mentor, who says that while giving full stimulation to children is beneficial to their brain development, too much stimulation and toys distract their attention, which is not conducive to lasting exploration and concentration. And for children, any object in life can be a toy, so there is really no need to buy so many games, especially the same type of repetition.
Many children play with this toy the minute before, and another toy comes out the next. Soon the living room was all piled up with toys. It's all a lot of toys. The parents gave too many choices and distracted the child's attention. Therefore, if there are many toys in the family, it is very important that the toy is accepted and the rules are established.
For smaller children, parents can hide their toys in a closed box to avoid seeing too many toys at the same time. Every time you bring a toy to your child, it's very helpful to train your child's concentration and order.
Wait until the children get larger, at the age of two or three, parents can give children the right to self pick the toys, but prior to the agreement with the children, playing only a toy every time, play a second before you take out the toy collection well before. This will slowly cultivate the child's sense of regulation.
The best toy is always free
This free, there are mainly two kinds of meanings:
One is already in nature, such as sand and water. These natural toys have a natural fusion with the child's nature. Without a penny spent, the child will develop his imagination and creativity in the change of sand.
One is free to produce their own, such as parents and children with DIY small handicraft, clay crafts, origami, toy bricks etc.. This not only trains the child's imagination and practical ability, but also gives the child a good sense of participation and a sense of achievement.
Let the children learn to exchange toys >
Some people don't see the children, the children have a look at what toys, while to be envious. Parents, children eagerly look too poor, or to buy him one. As a result, it is easy for children to come to the conclusion that I can have toys for others.
This actually reflects the inner &ldquo of the parents; comparisons with ” and the child can not hide the “ spoiled ”. They buy toys for a child, always easily disarmed, but can not really enjoy if things go on like this, children toys, but the toys increase demand for fresh.
In fact, parents need not always meet the children, if you can think of a way to delay the child's desire to meet, or request to guide the child to play with other children, or to learn exchange, take turns to play, it is very good.
Share the experience of "
Zhao Juan also shared her experience with the toy collection and the influence of the family layout on the child.
I attended the art training course of Mr. Xiang xiang. Class, there are two toys together, the first pile is a common light, plastic and other exquisite toys, second piles of pebbles, wood color, handmade wool and other natural and natural toy doll. The teacher told us to play these two kinds of toys and make up stories.
I was first assigned to the first pile of toys. We just started with interest, only a few minutes to gossip. But when we were in the same group and switched to the second pile of natural toys, the mood became less anxious. Everyone with all sorts of gossip, stories of creation, imagination bursting.
After this little experience, I was shocked inside. As parents, are at all to give children the best, the best, the best toys everyday food and clothing, but the best, is the most suitable? Is it worth the money we have spent? After that, I went home and quietly picked up my child's toys. At last I had only a few cars and blocks, and slowly added new ones.
In the process, he only asked a few times where his car and robot went, and I replied, "here it is.". After a few moments he never thought again.
There is also a experience, but also after the toy picked up the story.
After the toy was put away, I placed the shelf outside and put a small cushion in front. The magic thing is that I made changes during the day, and after dinner at night, the children kept playing with toys as usual. After a while, I heard my grandmother's reading to him in the next room. I know, changing the environment has worked. At this time of the day, he must have fought all kinds of toys.
I just changed the environment around him and his behavior changed. Parents are the environment of a child's lifeWe always say that family education, in fact, is to create a good family environment. Many times, the conflict between parents and childrenThe environment that we give is not good enough.